Some people
were just meant
to find each other.

The questions you were too polite to ask.

Still not satisfied? Write to us. We enjoy difficult questions.

Why is Unshaadi's success rate so high?

Two reasons. First, the programme itself: careful curation, rigorous screening, thoughtful introductions, structured conversations, and reflection support throughout the journey. Second — and perhaps more importantly — our admission standards. Unshaadi is intentionally difficult to enter. We turn away applicants who are not honest, emotionally available, genuinely single, or ready to participate with sincerity and consistency. That means our members are not simply looking for attention, entertainment, or endless options. They are here because they are ready to meet someone meaningfully and do their part in building a relationship. The strength of the process, combined with the quality and intent of the people within it, has resulted in an 89.7% success rate. We did not set out to chase the highest number. We set out to build the best possible environment for real relationships. The number followed.

What is the refund policy?

Any amount paid to Unshaadi — part or full — is non-refundable as soon as the payment is made. Please ensure you are ready for a serious relationship before applying. This is to maintain the integrity and experience of our existing members.

What does the application process look like?

It begins with a short, confidential application. Because Unshaadi maintains a carefully balanced and limited membership pool across age groups, genders, cities, and regions, applications are reviewed as suitable registration spaces become available. This means there may be a waiting period before our team reaches out. When a space opens in your region, a senior member of the team will speak with you personally. The conversation helps us understand your relationship intent, emotional readiness, expectations, and whether your values align with the community we are building. If we see a strong initial fit, you will be invited to proceed with the registration payment. Applicants without a member referral may be asked to pay a refundable registration token at this stage. After the payment, applicants undergo a psychometric analysis before admission is confirmed. Applicants without a member referral may be required to complete more than one round of analysis, depending on the assessment. If you clear the process and an appropriate space is available, your admission is confirmed and you enter the programme. If you do not clear the assessment, the refundable token is returned. The process is selective by design, but it is always respectful, confidential, and human.

What are reflection sessions?

The secret to why your Unshaadi relationship is going to be the best relationship you have ever had. Between introductions, we sit with you — not to debrief or tick boxes, but to understand what the experience is revealing about what you actually want. Most people spend years in relationships only to realise they never asked themselves the right questions. We ask them for you, mid-programme, when it matters most.

So... is this just Shaadi.com with a better logo?

No. Shaadi.com is what happens when you let the entire family browse a catalogue together. We are what happens when you decide to trust one very discerning human over five thousand algorithm points. The logo is also better, yes.

Do you have an app?

No. Deliberately. An app would turn this into a browsing experience, and the moment you start swiping, you start shopping. You are not shopping for furniture. Neither are we.

Is this just arranged marriage with better branding?

No. In arranged marriage, families make the shortlist and you make the final call. Here, we make the shortlist, you make the final call — and crucially, the shortlist was made by a human who has actually spoken to both of you. Not your uncle who heard about someone at a wedding in 2019.

I have very specific requirements. Will you find someone who meets all of them?

That depends entirely on what the requirements are. If they are "kind, curious, emotionally available and interesting" — we are confident. If they include exact height to the centimetre, MBA institution rank, and ancestral city of origin — we should probably have a longer conversation first.

What if I fall for someone before the programme ends?

Wonderful. That is the entire point. Please tell us immediately so we can stop introducing you to other people.

My mother wants to know how many rishtas I received. What do I tell her?

Tell her you joined a programme that produces three to ten carefully curated introductions per quarter instead of three hundred suggestions forwarded on WhatsApp by relatives you have not spoken to since 2016. She will either be impressed or confused. Both outcomes are acceptable.

Will you judge me?

Yes. Briefly, professionally, and entirely to your benefit. We judge because we care about not wasting your time or ours. Being judicious is not the same as being judgemental. We are the former.

What if I meet no one I like?

A fair concern. It is also the same concern you had before the last app, the last wedding, and the last "family friend's son who is also in finance." The difference is: this time, someone is actually on your side.

Why is it called Unshaadi?

Because it is not a shaadi service. It is the thing that happens before you decide whether you want one. The distinction matters — at least to us.